A two-year old had been working on drawing circles, so his grandma decided to amp it up a bit. She said, “Can you put a nose on it?” And he did.
With a smudge on his nose, he lifted his head with pride and accomplishment!
So, this is a cute, cute story. It’s easy to appreciate this young child exploring the world and functioning without learned behaviors or expected outcomes. In the same mind that plays these thoughts, other hypocritical thoughts contradict these beliefs. Are we even aware? Do we see possibilities in the “wrong” answers from our students and consider it to be neat?
If I were the grandma, I would have followed this “answer” with…”Can you show me another way to add a nose?” This approach helps the child develop flexible thinking without destroying his own thinking mind or confidence. He added a nose. It just wasn’t the nose Grandma had in mind.
Why is it that the big people, a.k.a. teachers, become so trapped in own expectations or “correct answer” that we can’t see the actual world around us? The answers and ideas and possibilities. Is it any surprise that our students don’t know how to think? Maybe they’ve given up because all of their thoughts were “wrong.” Maybe it’s because we don’t give opportunities to think, and they’ve learned they don’t have to think. Maybe, just maybe, it’s simply because we haven’t thought about this…we haven’t thought about our own thinking.
Guess what? That’s where it starts. As a teacher, I must be thinking about the answers I hear and hold myself accountable for having flexible thinking, too. Could there be a path to the answer that I haven’t considered? How did they get that answer? Why would the student answer in that way? Why would he put his face on the paper?
That’s what makes this story cute. We were intrigued by this two-year old’s response, and our inquiry and curiosity forced us to consider the thinking involved. We can see why he put his face down.
It’s an awful day when the student is giving more than a teacher is asking, but the teacher is looking for “one” answer…and misses the amazing work being produced by the student. Even worse, tells the student it isn’t correct or isn’t what she asked the student to do. Keep the learning objective clear and think about the responses given by your students. Respond to their thinking…not necessarily their answers. Discussion is a reciprocal action.
This weekend…as you plan for next week…prepare some thought-provoking questions. Be ready to think about the thinking going on in your classroom. Find moments like this one in your classroom.
So, get kids talking…and listen. REALLY listen. And don’t forget to ask YOURSELF to think, too.